What happens after you share
What happens after you share
The honest version first: a share cannot be unsent. Once a document has gone to a business, they have it. No app can reach into somebody else's records and take a file back, and any product that implies otherwise is selling comfort rather than a feature.
What my-id.ca does give you is a complete record, and control over your own copy.
What sharing history records
Open Sharing history in the sidebar. Each row shows:
- Form — what was shared
- Business name
- Email and phone of the recipient
- Date
- Document — a link to view your copy
This is the answer to "did I already send that, and to whom?" — which comes up more often than you would think, usually months later when someone asks for the same thing again.
What deleting does
If you delete your copy of a shared document:
- The document leaves your account and stops counting toward your storage quota.
- The sharing-history row stays — it is the record that the share happened, and removing it would defeat the purpose.
- The link in that row is replaced with the date the document was deleted.
It does not retract the copy the business received. Deleting is housekeeping on your side, not a recall.
Stopping further requests
You do not need a revocation mechanism to stop data flowing, because nothing flows without your approval in the first place. To wind a relationship down:
- Decline further requests. A declined request sends nothing.
- Say so in the conversation. Most requests continue simply because nobody said stop.
- Ask them to delete what they hold, if that is what you want. They are subject to their own privacy obligations, independent of my-id.ca.
Where the decision actually is
Everything above points at the same conclusion: the moment that matters is before you approve.
Before you send, check:
- Is this the right business? Names on requests can look alike.
- Is this document what they asked for? Sending your passport when they wanted proof of address is an unnecessary disclosure.
- Does the document contain more than they need? A bank statement to prove an address also shows every transaction you made.
- Is the value right? See Review every field before you send.
Thirty seconds there is worth more than any control afterwards.
If you shared something by mistake
- Tell them immediately and ask them to delete it. Early is much better than late.
- If it was an identifier — a SIN, a card number, an account number — treat it the way you would a leak anywhere else: contact the issuing organisation about monitoring or replacement.
- Note what happened. Your sharing history has the date and recipient, which is what you will need if it ever has to be explained.
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Frequently asked questions
- Can I recall a document I sent?
- No. Once a document has been delivered, the recipient has it. Deleting your copy removes it from your account and from the link in your sharing history, but it cannot retract theirs.
- What happens to my sharing history if I delete the document?
- The row stays — it is the record that the share happened. The link is replaced with the date the document was deleted.
- How do I stop a business from asking for more?
- Decline their requests, and say so directly in the conversation. There is no data flow without your approval, so declining is effective on its own.